by Christian Pankhurst
Should you stay or walk away?
Have you ever stayed in a relationship with someone who couldn’t meet you in your needs and desires, but yet you still found it hard to walk away?
Sometimes people suffer from what I call “one-itis” – when we think there is only one other person in the entire world who can feel us, fulfill us and give us what we want. But the truth is that the more integrated, open and present YOU become in yourself, the more amazing a connection you will experience with more than just one other person. “One-itis” is what happens when we project all of our needs onto one other person, or when we respond from our conditioning because we’re too scared, and thus end up just playing it safe instead of following our deepest heart’s longing.
In the video below you’ll see an honest woman share about her ‘open relationship,’ and how her heart yearns for greater commitment from her lover. I also share a funny story about what happens when a man becomes more and more open to life.
Have you been settling for less in your life? What “a-ha” are you taking away?
Christian Pankhurst founder of the Heart IQ Coaching Method, Personal Empowerment with Heart IQ and Winner of Britain’s Next Top Coach. Christian is a sought after speaker and trainer and is recognised as the leader in the industry for heart based work.
He was a protege of Neale Donald Walsh and toured extensively with Walsh, teaching the messages from Walsh’s best selling Conversations with God for many years. Christian’s work now is influenced by all his experience to date. From his early training as a Chiropractor and Martial Arts Teacher to the deep lessons of the Conversations with God Series and subsequent work with inspiring visionary Tej Steiner who introduced Christian to the Heart Circle Model.
In 2011 Christian opened the Heart IQ Academy, a professional coach training university that teaches others how to apply the Heart IQ Method in their own practice. For more on Christian see christianpankhurst.com